Thursday, May 21, 2026

Hospital reviews are not like movie reviews


Seema had a health issue. Since her condition did not improve even after a few days, she thought about consulting a doctor and went ahead and booked an appointment with Dr A at hospital B.

When her friends got to know about her plan to visit the hospital, they dissuaded her from going to that particular place.

"Why do you want to go to a hospital you have never been to?" her friends asked her. "Moreover, hospital B looks good and posh because they fleece their patients."

"Why go there when you have good doctors in hospital C? Go there and meet Dr D. He is really good. They don't unnecessarily prescribe medicines and tests," Seema's friends suggested.

Seema had opted for hospital B, a relatively new one, mainly because it was easier for her to reach.

Earlier, she had always gone to more well-known hospitals, like C which her friends suggested, that were far away; and the commute was difficult due to heavy traffic.

Hospital B is closer to Seema's home, so she thought of giving it a try, even though she hadn't heard great reviews about it.

Her friends' counsel confused her, but she decided to stick to her choice.

On the scheduled day, she went to hospital B and met doctor A.

Everything went off smoothly.

She found the doctor very receptive. He explained to her the underlying medical reasons for her condition, and why she should undergo a couple of blood tests. He came up with a diagnosis and prescribed a few medicines. 

She returned home in a cheerful frame of mind. In fact, she felt okay even before taking the medicines!

MORAL OF THE STORY

  • Never be influenced by others' views about hospitals and doctors.

  • Take your own decision and stick to it.

  • Have trust and faith in hospitals and doctors. If you don't have trust, don't go.

A hospital review is not like a movie review, because going to a hospital is not like going for a movie. One is about health and life; the other is about entertainment.

IT'S ALL ABOUT FAITH 

An experience with doctors is as much about trust in them as it is about their professional qualifications and skills.

Each person's experience with a hospital or a doctor is unique. Just because you did not like a particular hospital or doctor, it does not mean that will be the experience for everyone else too.

So, do not dissuade or discourage another person from visiting any hospital or meeting any doctor. You might unwittingly end up preventing them from getting their illness cured.

Conversely, if you had a good experience with a hospital or a doctor, be cautious when you make a recommendation. Others shouldn't end up having a bad experience and blaming it on you.

YOUR VIEWS

If someone asks your opinion about a hospital or doctor:

  • Make it very clear that it is your personal opinion and warn them not to be influenced by your views.

  • Don't make judgements on medical matters. We are no one to determine if a blood test or an x-ray was required or not. That is the job of a medical professional.

FINALLY

  • When it comes to health, always look for factual information rather than opinions. Listen to others' views, but take your own decision.

  • Approach health professionals with an open mind. If you trust and believe in a doctor, treatment becomes that much easier.

Friday, May 8, 2026

Reflections - A to Z Challenge 2026


This year's A to Z Blogging Challenge was easily the one I enjoyed the most. 

Sometime in the second week of March, I came across a mention on the web or social media (I can't quite remember which) of Dhinga Gavar, a festival unique to the city of Jodhpur in Rajasthan, which is celebrated around that time. I found it quite strange and funny, and that instantly gave me the theme for this year's challenge. 

When I did the "Theme Reveal" post on 13 March, I wasn't actually sure I could pull it off. I was even getting ready to change the topic either before the challenge started or midway through it.

The second half of March was spent in extensive web searches to find various "strange and unusual customs, traditions, and phenomena in India". It was by no means easy finding one for each letter of the alphabet.

The second challenge was finding authentic information about each of them. I was very particular that I would only write those that had been covered by well-known media organisations or had an entry in Wikipedia with credible sources.

I am glad I could find 26 of them; in fact, for a few letters, I even had options. With most of April spent writing the posts, there was little time or energy to visit or read all the posts of other bloggers who had taken part in the challenge or who had dropped by my blog to leave comments. That did make me feel guilty.

The least I could do was read the comments, note down the names so I can return the visit as soon as possible. Fifty-six readers shared their thoughts on at least one of my posts. Plus, there were a few friends who sent messages on WhatsApp.

Every year, through the A to Z Challenge, I meet new bloggers, and this year was no exception. Among the 56 are many of my good old blog pals as well as a few new ones. I was surprised and happy to find comments from a few bloggers whom I had known before but who had dropped off my radar.

There were many anonymous comments too. If it was a login problem that made them comment anonymously, they could have written their names at the end of the comment. I hope they were not from someone I know!

Here is a big thank you to everyone, including the names mentioned below, who read my posts and jotted down their thoughts.

Yamini (who ensured that her comments too conformed to the A to Z pattern. Bravo!), LizTomichan,  AndrewLisaLeanneDavidMariettaSuchitaJosnaSundarAshokViyomaVallypeeDarlaSGKPRajeshJo-AnneChrisKatieRudraprayagaArtiFrewinJabblog.

These are bloggers whom I got introduced to via this year's Challenge.

Little PrincessKarenRatnaLindaPaulaBalaka BasuTanviA Tarkabarka HölgyAl PenwasserJeanCrackerberriesAnneAnuradhaDurgaPandianNatashaSowmyaSrivalliMelodySintraLenniRonelJemimaFabCRDIdea-istSumeet.

I don't have the links to the blogs of Pinkii Bakshi, Nnenna, Erin Penn, and Kristin.

Blogs are about information, ideas, thoughts, and connections. 

Keep blogging!