
"So, I bought a new phone!"
So, how was your day?
So, it has been raining since morning today.
So, I am travelling to Delhi this evening.
Here, we are not referring to so as a conjunction (a word that joins two sentence). For example, It's raining so I am not going out.
I have heard many people using it that way. Are you one of them?
Apparently, Mark Zuckerberg, Chairman and CEO of Meta Platforms, is one of them.
Textbook grammar says one should never begin a sentence (much less a conversation) with a conjunction like so, and, or, etc.
The proponents of its such usage say it sets a context to start a discussion or a conversation; and it sounds more natural that way. Something like a substitute for "You know, .. Well, ... " etc.
They say when you start a conversation with: "So, I am travelling to Delhi this evening", it means "I have been wanting to tell you about my travel plans ..." Or, "Well, there is a change of plan, so I am travelling to Delhi this evening."
However, the opponents say, it is not only grammatically wrong but it also makes the speaker sound a bit defensive (for some unknown reason) saying something that the listener wouldn't be prepared to hear.
I am not one of those who would begin a conversation with so because it sounds a bit odd when I hear someone use it in that manner.
Language is all about usage, is it not? If it conveys the right meaning, then the usage should be deemed to be right!
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